What would be your thoughts if he asked you to gain a few? Perhaps look at it from his perspective? What is your reaction to him, about seeing the results? Does he like it?
LadyAdelaide wrote: He seems perfectly fine with it, the issue is the fact that he gets no pleasure out of it, only does it because he knows that I get great amounts. That makes me feel uneasy.
Well, maybe there's something nice you can do for him. Ask!